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from Cville Village members and contributors


As the New Year 2016 begins, we want to give you an update on the status of CvilleVillage. We are moving forward, although not as rapidly as we had expected.


Carolyn Benjamin represented CvilleVillage. Nationwide, interest and enthusiasm for the village concept remains high, as evidenced by 350 people in attendance. Within the Village to Village Network ( there are now 190 fully operational villages with another 185 in development. The speed at which villages develop varies widely: 1) depending on an adequate number of committed people actively involved in building the village infrastructure and 2) determining how the village will complement/partner with other organizations serving seniors, which varies geographically.

SURVEY, June 2015.

Our thanks to all of you who responded to the survey sent to our email list to measure ongoing interest in creating a village in Charlottesville. The survey revealed that there is still strong interest in having a village here; however, there are not enough people with The time and/or commitment to assist in creating it. Many people expressed their desire to have a village in Charlottesville, and their willingness to support it once it opens, especially when assessing the financial reality of retirement homes and assisted living facilities.


 IMPACT (Interfaith Movement Promoting Action by Congregations Together) has selected Elder Care as their focus for this year. They have asked for our input as part of their community-wide research on this issue, and we look forward to working with them to raise awareness of the state of Elder Care in Charlottesville. (


Carolyn Benjamin, M.K. Gleason, Helen Plaisance, and Judy Zeitler are continuing to reach out to individuals and groups to educate them about the village movement. We hope to attract more individuals with the skills necessary to support a thriving village. We would also appreciate your suggestions, questions and involvement as we make CvilleVillage a reality, providing another option for helping seniors “age in place”.


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By Issie Lapowsky July 12,2015

Technology and the elderly go together like peas and guacamole, which is of course to say, they don’t go together at all. At least, that’s what you might think if you’ve ever tried to teach your mom or dad to use an iPhone.

So it’s no surprise that in its attempts to manage the ballooning aging population in America, the government hasn’t often relied on tech tools as its first line of defense. Now, that’s starting to change. This week, the White House is kicking off its Conference on Aging, the once-a-decade gathering that has given birth to landmark government programs like Medicare and Medicaid. On Tuesday, the White House Council of Advisors on Science and Technology will also meet to discuss the pressing issue of aging. In both cases, the government has invited technologists to the table, in hopes of finding new ways to scale senior care, without sacrificing on quality.

Seth Sternberg believes his company might be able to help.

Sternberg is the founder and CEO of Honor, an Andreessen Horowitz-backed start-up that helps seniors find home health aids through an online marketplace, and this week, Sternberg will be in D.C. presenting his thoughts on how technology can make it easier for people to age independently. The conversation coincides with Honor’s public launch in the Bay Area today, as well as the announcement that the company plans to donate $1 million in free care to seniors in 10 different cities.

Honor’s goal, says Sternberg, is to ensure that the next generation of aging Americans—a generation that, thanks to baby boomers, will be unprecedented in size—will be able to grow old without leaving their homes. To do that, Honor is trying to improve the quality of care in the industry by increasing care professionals’ wages and using technology to make the process of selecting and working with one of these caretakers as transparent as possible. Its mobile platform alerts family members when caretakers are coming and going, and the company has even redesigned the interface of the tablet they give to seniors that allows them to rate their care professionals on a daily basis.

“There’s been this problem where we have not as an industry invested in innovation around products for seniors, because people are scared that innovation comes from technology, and seniors and technology don’t mix,” Sternberg says. “I think there are a lot of misperceptions that can be cleared up. The market is massive and the opportunity is huge.”

The Lower Cost of Staying Home

The concept of using technology to help people age in place has become a focal point for the U.S. government, says Valerie Steinmetz, program director of the Center for Technology and Aging.

“I think the government is mirroring society in general,” Steinmetz says. After spending the last decade evangelizing the promise of technologies like telehealth for the aging demographic, Steinmetz says it’s only over the last year or so that she’s begun to see these technologies really talk off. “People are starting to believe in it and test it out for themselves, and the government is following right in line with these innovations.”

Of course, it also has a lot to do with cost. Evidence has been mounting for years that technology that allows people to age in place can actually have a substantial impact on reducing the cost of care for seniors, because it leads to more frequent monitoring. And, with the ever growing demand for a reduction in Medicare spending, that evidence is becoming more and more compelling to government agencies.

Just last month, the United States Senate Committee on Aging held a hearing in which a panel of researchers laid out all the ways that tech tools could help prevent things like falls, which disproportionately impact people over 75 and which cost billions of dollars to treat each year. Medicaid also recently reported the results of a year-long study that showed house calls can reduce the cost of care for frail seniors by an average of $3,070 per beneficiary. But Steinmetz says the real thought leader in this space has been the Veteran’s Administration, which has successfully run a telehealth program for veterans for more than a decade. One VA study showed that this technology has led to a 35 percent reduction in hospital readmission and a 59 percent reduction in “bed-days.”

“The government has looked at these programs and sees that they’ve been able to reduce costs, specifically in the medicare population, and says, ‘Let’s look at this further,’” Steinmetz says.

In-Home Care for All

She also sees an increasing willingness by the government to reimburse seniors for home care professionals, like the ones Honor provides, and that’s critical, says Sternberg. “If you look at the pricing structure for home care, by and large, it’s out of pocket, and the only way government helps is if you’re on Medicaid,” he says. “I’d really love to see us create a system through Medicare, where in-home care is proactively provided to people.”

Of course, technology alone can’t fix the massive shortage of home health aids that the country is already facing. This may be the biggest obstacle to Honor’s ability to scale, particularly given that the company only accepts about 5 percent of applicants for these jobs. But Sternberg is hoping that as both tech companies and the government continue to invest more in this space, jobs caring for seniors will become more desirable.

“These people are now considered unskilled labor, but they’re doing something critical for society,” Sternberg says. “We’re trying to make being a care professional a true career path for people.

“There’s been this problem where we have not as an industry invested in innovation around products for seniors, because people are scared that innovation comes from technology, and seniors and technology don’t mix,” Sternberg says. “I think there are a lot of misperceptions that can be cleared up. The market is massive and the opportunity is huge.”

‘Sandwich generation’ worries about own care as they age

By Lauran Neergaard, The Associated Press | July 10, 2015

WASHINGTON — Caught between kids and aging parents, the sandwich generation worries more than most Americans their age about how they’ll afford their own care as they grow older, a new poll shows. But most aren’t doing much to get ready.

Nearly 1 in 10 people age 40 and over are “sandwiched” — they’re supporting a child while providing regular care for an older loved one, according to the poll by The Associated Press-NORC Center for Public Affairs Research.

Another 8 per cent may join the ranks of double-caregivers in the next five years, citing declining health of an older relative or close friend.

Dueling responsibilities can make some days feel like a tug-of-war.

“If my mom needs something badly, I get pulled away from my kids a lot,” said Kamila Al-Najjar of Santa Rosa, California, a lawyer with two children and self-described health advocate for her mother. She visits her mother’s assisted living facility at least twice a week and checks in daily by phone, to oversee a list of illnesses.

“You’re dealing with someone who is aging, toward the end of their life; then you have to deal with a teenager. I hear from my mom and daughter that I’m a nag. There’s no winning in it,” she said.

Adding to the challenge, 40- and 50-somethings tend to be at the height of their careers — and need to hang onto their jobs despite difficulties of caregiving, said Susan Reinhard, who directs AARP’s Public Policy Institute. Employer flexibility is a top issue as the population ages, she said.

“It’s not just their own financial security, it’s the financial security for their children and for the future,” Reinhard said.

After age 65, government figures show nearly 7 in 10 Americans at some point will need long-term care — from a relative, home aide, assisted living or nursing home.

Yet the AP-NORC Center poll found overall, most Americans 40 and older — 54 per cent — have done little or no planning to get ready for this often pricey reality. Only a third reports setting aside money for those needs. That’s even though Medicare doesn’t pay for the most common types of long-term care, and a nursing home can cost more than $90,000 a year.

Drill down to the 9 per cent of this age group who make up the sandwich generation, and their experience leaves them far more concerned about their own senior years.

About half worry about being able to pay for their future care needs or having to move into a nursing home, compared with just over a third of other adults, the poll found. Also, 44 per cent of sandwichers fear leaving debts to family, compared with 28 per cent of others polled.

But the poll found the sandwich generation no more likely than other middle-aged adults to be planning and saving, possibly because of time or resources.

Al-Najjar is glad her mother “saved all her life … so she didn’t have to stress out about stuff like that.” Caring for her has changed how she spends and plans for the future.

“It’s like a wake-up call,” she said. There are “a lot of seniors in the United States that don’t have that money.”

The squeeze isn’t ending as children grow up. Among currently sandwiched parents, 29 per cent have adult children living at home, the poll found; others are providing adult children with financial assistance, meaning some are sandwiched even after their children leave the nest.

Another challenge: Finding services to help seniors live out their days at home. AARP recently opened an online “livability index” to rank communities on such factors as accessible housing and transit options.

And the National Association for Area Agencies on Aging runs an Eldercare Locator to help people find local resources. Last year, the locator averaged more than 22,000 requests for assistance a month. A recent report found the top needs: transportation, mostly to get to doctor appointments; in-home services, such as meals and personal care; and finding affordable housing or making age-friendly home modifications.

“People don’t generally make these calls until they’re in crisis,” said association CEO Sandy Markwood. “If mom and dad need this as they get older, you should prepare for that, too.”

Carroll Burnett of Whitesboro, Texas, cared for his 88-year-old father, who’d suffered a stroke, for a year before he died in March.

“I felt good that I could take care of him,” said Burnett, a retired tool and die maker who had help from his wife and one of his three grown children. But he’s saving up: “I don’t want any of my kids to go through what I did.”

The AP-NORC Center survey was conducted by telephone April 7 to May 15 among a random national sample of 1,735 adults age 40 or older, with funding from the SCAN Foundation. Results for the full survey have a margin of sampling error of plus or minus 3.2 percentage points.

Associated Press writer Stacey A. Anderson and AP news survey specialist Emily Swanson contributed to this report.

Two Public Events of Interest

Elder Lawyer Doris Gelbman  will be repeating her series of informative seminars “Aging Gracefully”  at the new JMRL Northside Library.

The seminar segments will be at 6:30 p.m. on the following dates:

Wednesday, June 24: Staying in Your Home

Wednesday, July 22: Independent and ‘Continuing Care Retirement Communities’

Wednesday, August 26: Assisted Living and Nursing Facilities – What’s the Diff?

The library is located at: 705 Rio Road West (1/2 block west of Route 29 – the old Phillips Supply Company).  This seminar is free and open to the public.


Attorney Gelbman will be giving a seminar  “Using Government Benefits to Your Benefit”

WHERE:     The Senior Center,  1180 Pepsi Place, Charlottesville, VA 22901

WHEN:       Tuesday, June 16 from 10 am – 11 am

WHAT:        An explanation of Medicare and Medicaid, as well as Veteran’s Benefits and other programs that may be of  benefit to you.  Again this event is free and open to the public.


Proposed CvilleVillage Services

The following list was developed by the CvilleVillage Programs and Services Committee to show the proposed initial services that CvilleVillage will offer.   Once we begin offering services we will add additional services when we can.     Please feel free to add your comments on this list with your suggestions for additions.

  • Transportation
    Drive (and sometimes accompany) members to and from doctors, dentists, veterinarians, physical therapist, fitness centers,  banks, post office, hair salon/barber, grocery store, meetings, church, social events, train station,
    airport, etc.
    Run errands for members wherein member provides lists and funds but does not go with volunteer (pick up prescriptions, dry cleaning, etc.)
  • Household Chores
    Change light bulbs
    Replace smoke detector batteries
    Change furnace filters
    Check fire extinguishers
    Make simple repairs
    Perform minor infrequent housework (light dusting, etc.)
    Organize items (rearrange closets or cabinets for easy access such as kitchenware, summer/winter clothing, seasonal decorations)
    Assist in compilation of emergency numbers
    Assist with pet care
  • Yard Chores (limited; at discretion of Village or volunteer)
    Rake/blow leaves
    Shovel/blow snow
    Put out and retrieve trash/recycle bins
    Do light weeding/planting
  • Social Assistance
    Make friendly visits
    Make daily phone calls
    Take walks
    Play games
    Read Aloud
  • Technology/Electronic Assistance
    Help with computers, printers, cell phones, DVD players, E-reader
  • Financial Assistance
    Provide limited help in paying bills; sort bills from other mail and place with member’s checkbook
  • Group Socialization
    Host pot luck dinners
    Go to restaurants, theater, concerts, movies
  • Village Office Assistance
    Perform administrative duties such as answer phones, maintain database, compile mailings, coordinate volunteers

Support CvilleVillage when you shop at Kroger Stores

You can support CvilleVillage when you shop at Kroger’s by linking your Kroger rewards card to the Kroger Community Rewards program.  Then every time you swipe your card at Kroger they will make a donation to CvilleVillage.

To register on-line for the Kroger Community Rewards, have your Kroger rewards card handy and go to

Click on  CREATE AN ACCOUNT at the bottom of the page   [If you don’t already have a Kroger card, you can get one by first clicking on REGISTER in the upper right hand corner].

Enter your email, create a password and enter your zip code, and again click on CREATE AN ACCOUNT.

Follow the steps entering your card number and other information as requested.  NOTE: you will need to click on SAVE after you enter each line of information.

Next click on EDIT, and under Kroger Community Rewards, type in Cvillevillage or enter our NPO number which is 93124.

Next click on SEARCH.   The screen should say:   “CvilleVillage  93124”    Click on the little circle next to “CvilleVillage” and you are done.

That’s all there is to it.   Once your are registered, everytime you swipe your card at Kroger, they will make a contribution to CvilleVillge   [NOTE: this has no effect on their separate program of Reward Points for Fuel].

The medical system may treat you well, but less so after you reach age 80

From the Washington Post 04/06/2015 by Louise Aronson


The clinic was in a dilapidated old building, yet the entryway retained a worn grandeur. Tapering, semicircular walls extended like welcoming arms, and a half-moon of sidewalk stretched to the quiet side street.

That’s where I first saw her, standing at the curb with her cane propped on her walker, squinting toward the nearby boulevard. The woman was clearly well into her 80s, with a confident demeanor and with clothes and hair that revealed an attention to appearance. She had a cellphone in one hand and seemed to be waiting for a ride.

I had been heading into the clinic for a 4:30 p.m. appointment, and when I came back out, night had fallen. But for her tan winter coat and bright scarf, I might have missed her leaning against the clinic’s curved wall. She still held the cellphone, but now her shoulders were slumped and her hair disheveled by the cold evening breeze.

I hesitated. On one side of town, my elderly mother needed computer help. On the other, our dog needed a walk, dinner had to be cooked and several hours of patient notes and work e-mails required my attention.

I asked this woman whether she was okay. She looked at the ground, lips pursed, and shook her head. “No,” she said. “My ride didn’t come, and I have this thing on my phone that calls a cab, but it sends them to my apartment. I don’t know how to get them here, and I can’t reach my friend.”

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Successful Aging: Go bare(foot) and improve your life

By Angelyn Frankenberg   Feb 16, 2015   From the Post Independent/Citizen Telegram

Test your balance by standing on one foot with your arms crossed in front of your chest and raising one leg so your foot is near but not touching your other ankle. How long can you hold the position? The average durations by age group are: 40-49, 42 seconds; 50 to 59, 41 seconds; 60-69, 32 seconds; 70-79, 21 seconds. If you are 50-plus and physically active, you probably will experience better-than-average duration.

Now try the same test with your eyes closed. Even if you are very active — unless you start your day with balance beam gymnastics or a unicycle ride — do not be surprised to find your time is not above average for your age group: 40-49, 13 seconds; 50-59, 8 seconds; 60-69, 4 seconds; 70-79, 3 seconds.

Maintaining a good sense of balance is a cornerstone of successful aging. It helps prevent falls and the fear of falling and contributes to a general sense of well-being, of feeling at home in one’s own body. Balance involves a complex interplay of physical and mental factors but depends on three sensory components: vision, the inner-ear (vestibular) system and proprioception, the subconscious sense of movement and position. For a detailed look at all three systems, see Scott McCredie’s “Balance: In Search of the Lost Sense.”

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Advance Care Planning

What follows is the first part of a publication from the NIH and the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.  Click HERE to go to their website where you can read the complete article and/or download a PDF version of the article.

  • What is Advance Care Planning?
  • Decisions That Could Come Up Near Death
  • Getting Started
  • Making Your Wishes Known
  • Selecting Your Healthcare Proxy
  • Making It Official
  • After You Set Up Your Advance Directive
  • Still Not Sure?
  • Looking Toward the Future
  • For More Information
Advance care planning is not just about old age. At any age, a medical crisis could leave someone too ill to make his or her own healthcare decisions. Even if you are not sick now, making healthcare plans for the future is an important step toward making sure you get the medical care you would want, even when doctors and family members are making the decisions for you.

More than one out of four older Americans face questions about medical treatment near the end of life but are not capable of making those decisions. This tip sheet will discuss some questions you can think about now and describe ways to share your wishes with others. Write them down or at least talk about them with someone who would make the decisions for you. Knowing how you would decide might take some of the burden off family and friends.

‘Age is not a barrier’: Tech designer, 91, lands her dream job in Silicon Valley

By Scott Stump      From: Today – Money        Feb. 27, 2015

While growing up during the Great Depression, Barbara Beskind was an inventor by necessity who hoped to become one professionally. Eight decades later, the 91-year-old has finally realized her dream at a top design firm in Silicon Valley.

As a 10-year-old I wanted to be an inventor,” Beskind told Jenna Bush Hager on TODAY Friday. “I’ve arrived. But it took me about 80 years.”

Beskind was 10 years old during the Great Depression, when ingenuity was a life requirement.

“I wanted to make a hobby horse, and I made it out of old tires,” she said. “I learned a lot about gravity because I fell off so many times.”

Her initial dreams of becoming an inventor were dashed when her high school guidance counselor told her that engineering schools don’t accept females. Instead, she served in the U.S. Army and as an occupational therapist while also writing books and learning to paint. Two years ago, she read about the Silicon Valley design firm IDEO and decided to apply for a job at the firm, which is famous for designing the first mouse for Apple and dozens of other well-known devices.

“It took me about two months to write my resume, paring it down from nine pages,” Beskind said. “Then I wrote the letter and sent it by snail mail.”

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