We all know you can be alone without being lonely. They’re two different things. Likewise, you can be lonely while surrounded by people. Either way, loneliness is a health hazard, and this article is a fine summary of why and the many actions we can take to mitigate it. Providing companionship is a core service of a Village, and at the top of our list of services we want to provide when Cville Village launches.
“During the pandemic, isolation was one of the biggest risk factors, both emotionally and in terms of getting basic needs met. Our synagogue had volunteers calling everyone to make sure they were all right and to offer any needed assistance.
“In a Village, there would be a network of people who could check on each other. We now appreciate more than ever how important that is.”
Getting basic needs met – physical and emotional – is more or less the foundation of why Villages exist. Even those of us who live with partners or have family close by can’t assume those people are always available to see to our needs.
How did your pandemic go? What helped you cope?
It’s June, 2021. Two years ago this time, we were hoping we would have a functioning Village by now! We had no idea what would descend upon us in early March of 2020. For readers who lost a loved one to covid or anything else in the past 15 months, our most sincere condolences.
No doubt we have all learned something from this pandemic experience about ourselves and about living in this world.
We Zoomed, had driveway parties, adopted pets, read, baked, binge-watched, walked, talked on the phone. We coped however we could.
Over those long months, nearly every day I heard or read something that shouted to me, “Cville NEEDS a Village!” A plea to check on neighbors. Food delivery. Help with technology so families could stay in touch.
Laura said, “…all this quarantine and isolation has carried a strong message about building and supporting community for people in our area who are facing the crisis of aging alone.” She’s right. Community, companionship, are critical for humans and especially for those who are on their own. A Village can make them happen.
This very long link will take you to a message from Marta Keane, JABA Executive Director. In it, she describes some of the JABA activities going on in these Covid-19 days.
Stay home, but walk outside when you can. Wear a mask to protect others in case you’re pre-symptomatic. Stay connected. Stay safe!
I’ve heard from a few of the steering committee in the past couple of weeks. It’s been difficult but necessary to put our organizing efforts on hold for a bit while we all focus on keeping ourselves and others we love safe. But here’s a little update from a few of us.
Laura is enjoying the relative peace and being grateful for friendly faces (from 6 feet away) and friendly voices.
Carla is getting ready to plant her garden.
Vikki is enjoying the blossoming of spring, watching Netflix (she recommends “Kim’s Convenience”), supporting local restaurants by ordering takeaway on Friday nights. She was part of a Zoom seder this week!
Helen is working hard from home to prepare her workplace for her imminent retirement. In her spare time she’s been producing masks, and there’s a new puppy at her house, so undoubtedly she is busy.
Yours truly has also been making masks, as well as finishing two baby quilts (one is for my grandson due in early May!), working on a gift quilt, reading from the stash I got from the library before it closed, and continuing involvement with other aspects of my volunteer life. I tweet something to the @cvillevillage feed almost every day, try to maintain a bit of strength via training with elastic bands, and walk at least a couple of miles every day if it’s not pouring. Oh, and bake.
Now would be a good time to make sure your voter registration is up to date. Stay safe, help each other, we’ll get through this.
We, the Board and Steering Committee of CvilleVillage, really wish we were already a functional Village right now. In our community and worldwide, we’re coping with a health challenge like nothing we’ve seen before. Times are tough and not looking like getting better any time soon. So what can each of us do to help?
Keep yourself safe. Stay home unless you have to go out for food, medicines, or other essentials. Wash your hands, for at least 20 seconds, several times a day, especially after you’ve touched something from outside your house. Keep a distance of at least 6 feet from other people both inside and outside. If you feel unwell, call your primary care provider for instructions if you can, before going to the office or the ER.
Do you need help? Help is available in Cville and surrounding counties. Here are some resources:
Charlottesville Area Community Foundation https://www.cacfonline.org/ is another source for urgent assistance. The Community Resource hotline phone is 434-234-4490.
When we developed the schedule for our spring coffee parties, we didn’t anticipate a virus getting in the way. But it has, and so out of caution we have taken the decision to postpone the next two parties.
They were set for this Sunday, March 15; also Sunday, April 19.
We will get word out to all when we reschedule them. Thanks for visiting our website and let us know what you think!
Recently my sister has been without the use of her car, so I have had the chance to drive my sister and her son when they have needed to attend an event or to do some grocery shopping. Helping them in this way has been immensely satisfying for me. Not only has it brought me closer to my sister and her son and been a time of camaraderie for us, but I have noticed that I have also been energized by it. This has been especially apparent when I have further helped my sister, who has scoliosis, by carrying her groceries from my car to her kitchen. When I am taking in my own groceries at home, I do what I need to do, but without enthusiasm. Hauling her bags in, though, is a lively, jolly experience and it is gratifying to see how much she appreciates it. This experience with my sister gives me a sense of how privileged I will feel as a volunteer for Cville Village.
We’re excited to announce that our April coffee party will be hosted at Wegmans “Timber Room” on Sunday the 19th from 2 to 4 pm. The Timber Room is the one off to the left as you enter from the Pub entrance, that has doors we can close.
We’ll be specifically inviting people from Ridge St, Fifeville, Forest Hills, Johnson Village, Fry’s Spring and other south-side neighborhoods to join us, hear about the progress so far, and share their ideas with us.
More dates will follow: Belmont in May, and the new Center at Belvedere in June. Watch for details. Cheers!
Today we held our first neighborhood coffee party at Park St Christian Church. It was a great venue, the facilities were perfect for our needs. We are so grateful to the Pastor for permitting us to use their space.
We had 13 people in attendance in addition to several members of our organizing committee. A few had come in response to our email blast, but several saw the flyers we put up. So yay!
Vikki and I did a short presentation and then we took several very good and thought-provoking questions from the audience. There seemed to be quite a lot of excitement and support from them We also recruited a new member to the organizing committee! The only thing we forgot was to take some pictures. Oh well, there’s next time…
Next month we’ll do it again at Christ Community Church, 329 Riverside Dr in Woolen Mills. Come and tell your friends!